Pop Culture

Anyone who knows me or has been following my blogs for any amount of time (well, since pre-pregnancy) knows that I’m a pop culture junkie. I love the Twilight Saga of books and movies hardcore, and I blame my pregnancy on reading smexy Twilight FanFiction! If you’re not aware of this world of smutty literature, you need to jump in honey, coz HOLY SHIT ITS HOT! I love American Idol and was extremely passionate about this latest season, only to see country boy Scotty win in the end (I waited all season for that?)! And do I even need to remind you of my Adam Lambert obsession? My point is, I’m a Pisces and I live in a fantasyland that I’ve created for myself on my own time and I love to blog about these interests (sometimes) on Life At Thirtysomething, but definitely on my other blog aptly titled Pop Culture Junkie. The strange thing is; ever since I’ve become pregnant, and especially as my pregnancy comes to a close and reality sets in of the baby’s birth around the corner, I find my obsessions seriously waning.  What happened to the old me??!!

Courtney, can't you just love me AND the baby and get on with it?

Don’t get me wrong, I still love my Twilight and Robert Pattinson (duh!), but I just don’t feel particularly inspired to write anything on the topic these days. My man Adam is performing live concerts in Europe right now and vids are popping up all over the internet, but I can’t be bothered to post them to my blog. I’m reading a baby book right now, but I’ve booked an interview in two weeks on Pop Culture Junkie with an author of a new paranormal romance book, and it’s like pulling teeth for me to put my baby book down to read what promises to be some yummy adult book reading! My how things have changed! All I care about is finding the perfect glider and ottoman set for my baby nursery for all those late nights breastfeeding!! Will I ever get back to the old me, or will all my interests change when my baby enters this world?

Something tells me that when the initial freak out of having a baby wears off and I’m used to being a mom that some of these other interests will come back strong – especially when Breaking Dawn comes out in November! But jeez, it’s a bit strange to just feel so uninterested in stuff I used to follow with such fervor!

Thank God I’m having a girl though. Hopefully she’ll be like a little mini me and we’ll enjoy doing all these girlie things together, like going to see Justin Bieber concerts and attending midnight showings at the movies! But I think the days of staying up until 4a.m. reading FanFiction that I can’t put down are over…that is, unless there’s a baby getting a little grub in while mommy gets a little smut in!

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For some reason, the idea of registering for baby stuff has brought forth some mild anxiety for me. This is so different than when you registered for your wedding, because this has little to do with what you want and mostly to do with what you need. Well the problem is: hell if I know what I need! Nipple pads – huh? Butt paste! WHAT! So after letting my friend Stacy – mother of two adorable kiddies – in on my budding registry anxiety, she, being the super sweet person that she is, sent me an email with her baby gear “must haves!” And you have no idea how helpful this is going to be to me this weekend at Babies R Us. So I asked her if she minded if I repurposed her email as a blog post to help others who may be suffering from the same fears that I am – and of course she said “sure!” So without further ado, here’s Stacy…

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Hey Courtney!

I was thinking about you this morning and thought I would quickly put together my top picks for baby gear.  When you go into Babies R Us it can be overwhelming for new moms, so here is a list of my favs! I hope this helps you a bit when you go to register, enjoy!

Must-haves and my FAVS:

Baby monitor: Angelcare.

Bumbo seat with tray: Helps baby learn to sit, great for high chair, travels well out to dinners.

Baby swing: Fisher Price Papasan cradle swing (a must have in my book!).

Boppy pillow with one extra washable cover: Great for nursing and for baby to lay in.

Car seat:  Britax brand, think about getting the one that grows with baby.

Exersaucer or doorway jumper: I preferred doorway jumper and so did my kids, but you only need one or the other.

Baby Carrier: Bjorn brand is very comfortable and washes up in machine very nice, plus daddy can wear it too!

Strollers: This is a big thing, so you must try them out. Handles can be too low for tall parents, the wheels can be cheap and not roll properly, and some don’t even have drink holders!  My top picks would be: Graco snugrider car seat frame because its very light and your baby car seat will snap right into the frame from car to stroller. However, if you buy this, plan to get another stroller when baby is no longer in infant car seat.  Try out Britax B-ready stroller because it will grow with baby, or BOB strollers are built well!  

Diaper Bag:  This is something that will become your purse as well as diaper bag.  You will have this bag for a long time (at least until baby is out of diapers and bottles).  Boxy Brand backpack is stylish and practical.  Yes, it’s a bit pricy at $170.00, but my girlfriend has one and loves it!  If you can’t find it at the stores check out www.oompa.com.  It’s made from really nice material; and can fit onto stroller, and the best part is that it doubles as a backpack.  You will need a backpack since your hands are going to always be full and anything on your shoulders just don’t work.

Bottles:  Make sure you buy glass since they are best for baby – plastic can be harmful.

Baby blankets:  Three or four swaddle blankets are wonderful. The baby feels best when they are wrapped up tight mimicking the womb. Also, “sleep sacks” are my fav because you don’t have to worry about baby pulling blankets onto their face.  Get two in each size (small and large).  I used these until my kids were a year old! You put baby in and zip them up! Make sure you get the sleeveless ones. 

Bath tubs:  I mostly used the bathroom sink; it was just easier for me.  But if you feel like you need one make sure you get one that folds up and can be stored under the sink.  Example would be Summer brand mothers touch bather.  Plus, you can throw the cover into the washing machine for easy cleaning.

Lots of burp cloths:  Best ones are the big pack of Gerber cloth diapers – you will use these every day, all day!

Baby shoes: ROBEEZ! These are wonderful baby shoes, great for when baby learns to crawl and walk.  They are all leather and stay on baby’s feet (most things they kick off).  I believe you can only buy these at Stride Rite shoe store.

My fav stores for kids clothes: Gymboree, Janie and Jack, GAP, and Lands End.  The material washes up great and color stays longer than other brands. Yet, babies out grow clothes really fast so you don’t need to worry about this until they get older!

Onsies and socks: Gerber brand (socks with tight top, otherwise they will kick them off) can be a staple outfit in the warm months and just have a few fav outfits for when you go out and about!

Things you can probably do without:

High chair: Too big and takes up lots of room. Get one that fits onto a regular chair. You will be pleased.

Diaper Genie: The bags are a pain and it still smells! Get small plastic bags to keep in nursery, put dirty diaper in the bags and take out to the outside trash can.

Wipe warmer temp:  It’s always off and they are a pain. Get wash clothes or throw away cloths for when baby is a newborn. Run under warm water or regular wipes will be just fine.

A million baby outfits: Baby will grow super fast from size NB to 6 months.  Yes, they do go through a few outfits a day with spit up and wet pants, but the less you have the less you have to store and wash!

Well, I hope this helps you get started! Happy baby registering!!!!!

Thanks Stacy!! :)

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On Saturday night I have a date with Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte — and my mom, my mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and girlfriend to see the one and only: “SEX IN THE CITY 2”!!! On the agenda for Saturday is to shop for the PERF outfit to wear to the movies and then martinis afterward, natch. Ladies, the wait has been FOREVER, but it’s heee-eeerrrree!! And I wanna know; are you going to get Carrie-d away in your outfit selection to see the movie?! I mean c’mon, it’s a MUST! And most importantly, are you Team Big or Team Aiden??

I’ve been excited for this movie since they announced it was coming out way back when. But it wasn’t until I saw the first preview of HIM in it that kicked my exuberance into high gear. Yes, I’m talking about AIDEN!! I’m sorry Mr. Big fans, but I always loved Aiden and I never understood why Carrie and he didn’t work out. Honestly, I’ve never really understood Carrie’s connection with Mr. Big. He’s barely ever treated her right, he made her wait an effin’ long time before he got down on one knee and put a ring on it, and he generally seems to care more about his biz (or whatever the hell makes him such a baller) than he does her. RED FLAG! RED FLAG! But whatever, if he’s what makes Carrie happy, then I’m happy I guess.

BUUUUT, now I see that we have other options. I see we have BETTAH options! Aiden appears in Abu Dhabi and all the world’s problems are solved. He’s tall. He’s HAWT. And best of all, he’s sweeter than a big-ass glass of Riesling and a slice of key lime pie. Don’t you just wish this guy existed in real life? Does anyone know this guy in real life? If so, raise your hand! Wait, never mind – don’t. Nobody likes coming down with a major case of the jealousies.

Look! It's Aiden with long rocker hair!!

Well actually, I don’t mean to make you jealous or anything, but I got to give Aiden a little squeeze once. Yep. Ok, when he’s not playing the best boyfriend on earth on TV, he’s kind of a rocker. And his name is John Corbett. Once upon a time – in 2006 – when I was noticeably thinner with zero hints of aging on my face, I had a bachelorette party. My friend just so happened to work at a cool bar in Chicago with live music and huge crowds, and on this special night – the night before my bach party – she was working in the VIP lounge. She invited me and my friends up to drink for ffffff-free, and lucky for us, The John Corbette Band was headlining!

Hey buddy, do you see the blonde girl in the white? She's mine.

So we sorta watched, sorta didn’t. We were a little distracted by someone else sitting in VIP: Miranda’s husband, STEVE!! Yes, Steve and his 18-year old wife (in sweatpants) were watching John perform! How cool is that? I have a pic of Steve and me but for some reason I can’t find it online and only have it in hard copy. ANYWAY, when Aiden was done he shot straight up to VIP to hang with me Steve and his friends. Thankfully, we girls were drunk and shameless and we shimmied over to him to see if he’d mind taking a picture with us. I swear, he was giving me come hitha eyes and I was givin’ ‘em right back! Maybe it was all in my head, but let a girl dream, k? I made sure to wrap my arm tightly around his waist, give him a little squeeze, and lock eyes with him before pulling away. Mmmm, he was sexy.

So back to “Sex in the City” – I will most definitely be rooting for an Aiden victory. But of course I know that’s not going to happen. Otherwise what would’ve been the point of the first movie? No, Carrie will end up with Mr. Big and Aiden will end up with me. Hey, I guess it all really does work out in the end!

Are you planning a ladies night with your girlfriends to see SITC? Are you ready to strut it out in your Manolo Blahniks or Jimmy Choos? And lemme know, are you Team BIG or Team AIDEN?

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The Bachelorette ruined my night!

by Courtney on May 25, 2010

I'm a nice girl, wish you were me for the next 8 weeks, K?

Damn it! I had a date with my blog tonight and it totally got hijacked by the stupid “Bachelorette”. It’s not my fault either.  I was watching “Dancing with the Stars” like a good girl and then the Bach flashed on screen and sucked me in like a vacuum. I know better than to watch this reality show – I already know what’s going to happen. I’m going to fall in love with four guys and fall flat on my face in the end. These things never last! But here I go again for season 89: Ali, let’s go find ourselves a man!

We can just add this to the list of reality shows that I’m addicted to.

My reality TV life

I’m such a reality show lovah. I’m sad that “Dancing with the Stars” is going to be over Tuesday night and “American Idol” is done-zo on Wednesday. What the heck am I going to do with my Monday-Wednesday nights now? I guess I could just blog more. But I need a show that makes Mondays something to look forward to. Well shit, I guess that’s the freakin’ Bachelorette now. Great.

And by the way, it’s not just DWTS and Idol that own my early to mid weeknights. I’m also addicted to MTV’s “The Hills” and “The City”. That Spencer Pratt is certified CRAY-ZY! He’s coo coo for Cocoa Puffs – a total schizo. And I can’t peel my eyes away! And then there’s that bitchy Olivia Palermo on “The City”. She makes my skin crawl and I want to bitch slap her. But I guess you could say I love to hate her. She’s got great fashion sense! I love me some nice girl Whitney Port too. She’s just that girl you wanna root for. I live vicariously through Whit as she develops her fashion line in NYC and lives her dreams. I guess that’s the point of reality TV isn’t it? You watch someone else live their dreams (unless you’re into “Intervention”).

So for the next eight weeks or so I’ll have my eyes glued to the boob tube on Monday nights to see what guy Ali kisses next and which set of washboard abs and pecks are the most swoon-worthy. So ya, I’ll be living vicariously through this girl as she has way too many guys fawn over her and treat her like gold. Does anyone notice that reality TV isn’t exactly reality?

How about a weekly Bachelorette blog chat?

Mi llamo es Roberto and I will speak Espanol to you...and we will salsa dance.

So who’s watching “The Bachelorette” this season? I’ve already picked out a few of my faves (Roberto, Hunter the ukulele player/singer, and Frank with the dorky glasses but fun entrance!). What about you? BTW, what was up with that Kasey guy’s voice? He sounds like Kermit the frog! I keep watching Ali’s face for some kind of indication that she hears Kermit too, but I get nothing.

I was thinking; depending on the comments, I may do a weekly recap/convo about the Bach, so let me know if you’re watching!

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In case you’ve missed my numerous references to my fantasy boyfriend, Robert Pattinson, you should know that I’m absolutely in love with all things “Twilight,” therefore, there will be some serious counting down going on as we get closer to the third “Twilight” movie, “Eclipse.”

Being that today we’re officially 40 days out, I felt like posting the latest TV previews that have surfaced just this week for “Eclipse” and mostly new stuff that we haven’t seen in the trailers already.

Happy Friday!!

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Countdown to Twilight Saga: ECLIPSE!!!!

by Courtney on May 14, 2010

Uh oh…it’s happening: I’m starting to get really, really Twitarded again! I just watched Oprah’s much anticipated “Eclipse” special with Robert Pattinson, Taylor Lautner, and Kristen Stewart and all I want to do right now is cartwheels across my living room floor!  O-MIGAWD, this show just reaffirmed my apeshitness over all things TWI-LIGHT!  

WHOOHOO! Can you feel it in the air? It’s electric! June 30thget here already you muther!

I’ve been chomping at the bit for about three weeks now knowing that the big “O” was going to have the cast on her show for a special “Twilight Saga: Eclipse” episode. The idea of having RPATTZ and TayTay on one show for an entire hour sent me to the moon and back faster than Neil Armstrong! And lemme just say; the show did NOT disappoint!

Excuse me while I dissect the cast on Oprah…

Courtney, there are many sides to me. I can show you...

Robert Pattinson, you funny boy! I always just thought you were eye candy with nothing else really going on. I mean, that’s ok because your hotness certainly carries you through every possible scenario in life. But you are super cute and funny too, Robby! When you knocked on the door of those unsuspecting “Twilight” fan’s houses and the mom screamed, “OMIGAWD YOU’RE SO HOOOOT”, you really took it in stride. In fact, you even made my husband “LOL” with your funny commentary about breaking in to one of the houses that weren’t answering the door quickly enough. You’re sooo baaaad. I like it. What other bad things are you capable of? (Courtney, SNAP OUT OF IT, people are reading!)

Kristen Stewart, you were a bit more tolerable today. So that’s good. I need to continuously remind myself that you’re just a 20-year old girl only dating the hottest vampire in the world and I should cut you some slack. Wait, NO I SHOULDN’T! Step it up girl! Stop being so effing awkward already. Twitch, twitch, studder, studder! GAH! Cut that shit out! Just go sit on RPattz’ lap and shutz up. You do have really pretty green eyes though. And ok, I like you because you’re Bella. I kidded about the previous stuff. *winks*

Court, you can touch 'em if you want. I'll let you...

Taylor Lautner, Taylor, Taylor Lautner: come to mama! Your abs KILL ME! They’re really inappropriate to be honest. A married girl shouldn’t be worked up into a tizzy over your eight pack like this. It really should be illegal to be that hot. And that young (Oh be-have!). That “Eclipse” scene with you leaning up against the car with your shirt off and your 12-pack flexing inappropriately was so mind boggling that I think the rewind button on my remote is permanently stuck in the down position. I mean really, you’re so flippin’ ridic that my husb even admitted you were good looking! Of course he was trying to say that he didn’t think RPATTZ was a good looking guy, but he thought you were. You see, you have power over men too. Not fair, you 30-pack tease! *winks again*

And GOOD GRIEF, that brand new scene in “Eclipse” that Oprah showed (watch here) where Edward and Jacob were fighting over Bella, well, it had me doing the Irish jig in my living room! I was a giddy mess wanting more and more!*Sighs*

A passionate explanation

One of the “Twilight” Mom’s summed up this ridiculous obsession perfectly when asked about all the fan fair surrounding these books and movies. She said: “I think you miss the passion of your first love. It was just so passionate. And now you’re married, you have kids. You’re working. It’s a 24/7 job. And this is an escape. You relive your passion.”  I concur girlfriend. I couldn’t have said it better myself!

Ok, in T-minus 47 days “Eclipse” will be upon us. And I cannot be held responsible for my fan girl blog talk over this timeframe. So, consider yourself warned… And let the countdown begin!

 

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30 going on 13: the real me EXPOSED!

by Courtney on April 21, 2010

This is a direct quote from my husband. Swear.

This will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me, but I’m like, a major pop culture junkie. I love me some suuuuurrrrreeeaallll life like you wouldn’t believe. It’s true. I follow entertainment blogs on a regular basis and get daily e-newsletters from People Magazine and Us Weekly. I mean, it’s important that I know the breaking headlines. (What? There was a big volcano eruption? Where?). I watch “American Idol” and “Dancing with the Stars” with fervor and I see a new movie almost weekly.

The most notable of my pop culture obsessions has to be the “Twilight” series of books and movies. Ok… and as long as I’m being honest, I also have a freakish obsession with Adam Lambert. THERE. I SAID IT! The cat’s outa the bag. You know me. You really, really know me now. Are we still friends?

Well, up until now, I’ve saved my fan girl ramblings on the likes of Robert Pattinson and Taylor Lautner for my other blog, Pop Culture Junkie. I guess I thought Life at Thirtysomething was going to be about my OTHER interests. You know; the ones where I don’t have to hold my breath and pause for reaction when I hit the send button. But lately, I’ve been gettin’ tired of two bloggy blogs. It’s too time consuming to be two people – the 30-year old, and the 13-year old. Truth is; in many ways, I AM 30 going on 13. It’s my form of escapism form normal, everyday life. And so, if I’m going to write a blog about my life and the shiznet I care about, pop culture is going to weigh heavy on the menu of topics.

Spastic fan girl

What? You mean you haven't told them about us?

So there you have it, I’ve made up my mind. I’m going to start blogging about pop culture here. I should warn you; I’m not as classy and mature as you perceive me to be now. I know, I know:  surprise, surprise. But sometimes I’m just a spastic fan girl about my celeb love. Sometimes I want to gush about how freaking GORGE Robert Pattinson is… like in a way that a married girl shouldn’t. I want to delve into why at times he just looks OK in pictures, and other times he’s so HAWT, it’s stupid.

And I won’t even mention my life-size cardboard cutout of RPattz. No, it’s too soon. I’ll save that for a later post when I’m sure you’ve accepted the real me.

To my mature audience who couldn’t give a lick about pop culture, don’t be skerd. I’m still going to blog about life stuff, like how my dog’s giant balls are meeting their maker any day now, or how I plan to run naked in San Francisco’s Bay to Breakers annual 12k race. Ok, I’m not really going to run naked. I’m going to wear a bag over my head, you know, so no one knows it’s me.

So ya, I’m just going to infuse all of me in this blog now – not just my better half.

…And guys, I think you’re really going to love me! xoxo

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